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Tips for a Road Trip with Toddlers

Two little girls sitting in the back of a car

Does thinking about vacations and holidays have you a little stressed because you have young children? Here are some simple things you can do to help you have a successful road trip with toddlers!

For some background I have 3 kids. They are now 10, almost 8, and 5.

Neither my family nor my in-laws live near us so our kids have been taking road trips ever since they were born.

These are the trips we take on about a yearly basis. This is the actual driving time one way, stops not included.

  • 2 1/2 hours (one way) to my husband’s parents
  • 7 1/2 hours to my parents
  • 10 1/2 hours to a sister
  • 3 1/2 hours to another sister

We have also gone on a few vacations, some fairy lengthy.

  • 9 1/2 hours (one way) to Colorado with a newborn, just turned 3, and 5 year old
  • 4 1/2 hours (one way) with a 2 year old and newborn; 3 and 1 year old; 1, 4 & 6 year old
  • 19 hour drive (one way) to Orlando, FL with a 2, 5, and 7 year old
  • 15 hour drive (one way) to West Virginia with a 2, 5, and 7 year old

All of that to say, we have put a lot of miles on our van and are no strangers to taking road trips with toddlers and kids.

(However, when it comes to airplanes, I have no advice – we haven’t done that yet.)

We do not have DVD players, ipads, or any other movie/streaming devices that we use in the car. If you want to utilize them, that’s up to you but do know you can have fun, successful road trip with toddlers without electronics!

This means that this list does not including movies as one of my tips. If you choose to use them, I’d suggest spacing out when they are allowed. A show in the morning and one in the afternoon or whatever you decide rather than giving them to your child all day long.

an empty road with words road trips with toddlers

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Tips for a Road Trip With Toddlers

Naps and Bedtime

Work with naps and bedtime. Plan to be driving for nap time and make your stops when they should be awake.

For long trips, after you stop for dinner put your kids in pajamas and a night diaper for the remainder of the drive. This will help them know night time is coming and hopefully they will fall asleep for you. When you arrive at a hotel or your destination, carry them in and put them straight into bed. No need to wake them for potty or pjs.

Some other ideas to consider:

  • Wake your kids up super early and carry them into the car still in pajamas (or have them go to bed already in their clothes for the next day). If you are lucky, they will go back to sleep and you can get a couple of hours of driving in before they are awake.
  • For some families it works to leave the house at bedtime and have the parents rotate driving shifts through the night. Again, the hope is that your kids will sleep all night for you. This is one option we have not done.
Don’t Stop When They Are Asleep

This one is huge for me and I try to avoid it if at all possible!

Wait on food and try to avoid a bathroom break for the grownups if the kids are asleep. As quiet as you try to be, I can almost guarantee your kids will wake up when you stop. And trust me, that is no fun.

Coordinate Stops

To help make the previous tip possible, coordinate your stops. Use the bathroom when eating your lunch. Fill up with gas even if you still have a half a tank left. You don’t want to have to make a separate stop just for gasoline – especially if your kids have fallen asleep or are traveling well. Don’t ruin the momentum.


Bring a bag of snacks along with you. Have them portioned out into toddler sized amounts and every hour or two pass the kids a little treat. It can be a few crackers, some berries, a sucker, or whatever your toddler favorite snacks are. The food helps break up the trip for them and gives the kids a little distraction.

You might find some new snack ideas on this list!


That’s right, you can find other forms of entertainment for your kids besides screens! We always pack a few car appropriate toys and activities. On a road trip with toddlers these are obviously pretty simple but still useful. Find things around your house or check garage sales and the dollar store to find things you won’t mind being ruined.

Do just what you do with the snacks and rotate through the available options every hour or two.

  • Small toys. A new car, toy animal, doll etc.
  • Stickers. Kids love stickers. Yes, their skin, car seat, and window might be covered with stickers but they will think it’s awesome.
  • Magnets. Bring a metal pan and magnets for the kids to play with.
  • Books. Board books tend to be sturdy and you might be surprised how much kids enjoy looking at the pictures when they are confined to a car seat.
  • Pen and paper. For toddlers that are a bit older, they love to doodle. Keep a few coloring items and a blank notebook or a coloring book in a bag.
  • Music. Yes, I know they are just toddlers but music can still be fun and soothing. Introduce them to some of your favorites and you can also bring along some classical music and kids cds. Yancy, Slugs & Bugs, Seeds Family Worship, and Hide ’em in Your Heart are fun Christian ones.
  • Audio Books. You can find children’s audio books and ones for adults that are appropriate for children. Don’t be too skeptical, well written kid’s books are great even for adults. My husband has been surprised several times by a book he thought would be stupid. Bring shorter picture book length options and even consider chapter books like Tale of Despaurex or Charlotte’s Web for little kids. Obviously 1 year old toddlers probably won’t pick up what’s going on, but for the 2 and 3 year olds you will be surprised what they comprehend. Check your library or library app for for audiobooks you can checkout for free!
Drive Length

One last thing that people have multiple perspectives on is whether you should spilt the drive up into multiple days. You may need to try both ways to see what works best for your family.

If our trip is under 12 hours of driving (one way) we drive it all in one day. Our vacations that were 19 and 15 hours away, we split into 2 days. (This summer we will be going on our longest trip yet and our first day will include a 16.5 hour drive so that the following day we will only have 7 hours left.)

Some people like breaking trips that are just 8 hours into two days. We much preferred knocking it out in one (long) day knowing that the following day we’d be able to enjoy our destination instead of being in the car again. Give both methods a try if you need to!

These suggestions have helped us on our many road trips with toddlers! Yes, we still had our fair share of tears and fighting but overall I never minded traveling with kids. It was (mostly) enjoyable and fun.

Don’t be scared to travel with your kids, short distances or long. You will make a lot of fun memories!

two kids sitting in the open back of a car with suitcases

The Best Children’s Books About Trains

Stack of children's books about trains

This post is going to be on children’s books about trains – a book list perfect for a young train lover. It will include board books and picture books that your toddler, preschooler, and kindergartener will love. My son is now 7.5 and he still eagerly listens to even the simplest of these books when sister pulls one out.

My middle child is a boy and he was obsessed with trains, trucks, and dinosaurs. I’m sure you relate! Every trip to the library included many books on those 3 subjects. The books he pulled out of our bookshelves at home were on one of those things.

To help out other parents with kids obsessed with these things, I am going to share books lists on what we checked out of the library and own to help you on your own search.

Today we will tackle all the children’s books about trains!

Use this list to see what your library has and then you can buy your child’s favorites! You can also use Amazon on most of these to get previews of what the pages are like.

The first two on this list we own and our copies are worn and falling apart – that’s how many times we’ve read them.

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What have been your kids’ favorite train books?

horizontal picture of books about trains for kids

Children’s Books About Trains



Chugga Chugga Choo Choo by Kevin Lewis 
This was my son’s all time favorite book! It’s easy but he loved this and read it daily up until he was probably 5 1/2. Though, even at 7 1/2, if my daughter pulls it out to read he’ll some come running over. He still called it his favorite book when we took it out for the pictures.

Freight Train by Donald Crews
I’d say this was Spencer’s second favorite book. Our copy is very tattered. Another quite easy one great for young kids (1 and 2 year olds even, though he still loved this when he was older).

That’s Not My Train by Fiona Watt
I’ll be honest and say we have not read this book by we have read many others of the Usborne “That’s not my” series. Again, perfect for even the 1 year olds but at 5 my daughter still grabs these from the library on a regular basis.

Trains by Byron Barton
Another simple board book option for your train loving toddlers.

Trains Go by Steve Light
The last of the board books on this list. I love that board books hold up so much better under normal toddler use!

A Train Goes Clickity Clack by Jonathan London
An easy, fun picture book that we also own. Recommended for 18 months to age 5.

Trains Coming Through by Stephanie Morgan
This book, although not a board book, is advertised for ages 0-3. Again, though, they will still love it when they are older.

Trains by Gail Gibbons
My kids all love books by Gail Gibbons. This one is a simple one that is again perfect for your 2-4 year olds.

Steam Train, Dream Train by Sherri Duskey Rinker and Tom Lichtenheld
These next three are by the same author. This one is a story and preschooler (age 3-5) kids love it. The other two would be recommended for younger ones – they introduce colors and numbers with little rhymes. So most likely baby – age 3 or 4. Again, I recommended checking books out from the library and then deciding what you want to buy.

Steam Train, Dream Train 1-2-3 by Sherri Duskey Rinker and Tom Lichtenheld

Steam Train, Dream Train Colors by Sherri Duskey Rinker and Tom Lichtenheld

This Train by Paul Collicutt
Fun, easy book with just a couple words on each page. Your train lovers will enjoy this from probably age 1-4.

My Big Train Book by Roger Priddy
We do not have this book, but we have the Priddy Big Truck Book and it was a favorite of my sons. He pulled it out to look through by himself or have it read to him many times. Don’t discount giving little kids non-fiction books for those topics they are obsessed with! Recommended age is 1-4. (Though he read it past that.)

The Goodnight Train by June Sobel and Laura Huliska-Beith
Even though this book is for ages baby-3, it’s one that my just turned 5 year old still reads. In all of these books, she still finds them fun and enjoys the pictures. There are 2 other books in this series if your child likes the first one. The Goodnight Train Rolls On and Santa and the Goodnight Train.

The Caboose Who Got Loose by Bill Peet
These two books by Bill Peet are more like a traditional picture book. There are more words on each page but they are fun and I love his illustrations. They say recommended for ages 3-7.

Smokey by Bill Peet

Trains: Steaming! Pulling! Huffing!  by Patricia Hubbell
This is another book we haven’t read but our library has some of her others in this series that we’ve read many times. They are easy and fun. We’ve read these from about ages 2-6. (Though it is simple for a 6 year old)

The Little Engine That Could by Watty Piper
I’m sure you know this book. It’s one we’ve probably all read as a child. The listing recommends it for ages 3-7.

Prairie Train by Marsha Wilson Chall
A fun story about a girl who travels via train to go and visit her grandmother. Ages 4-8.

Locomotive by Brian Floca
This story is a bit more lengthy. It’s a picture book for ages 4-8. A 3 year old might still sit through it depending on attention span. (Don’t forget you can always abbreviate the pages too)

The Little Train by Lois Lenski
It’s not an exciting book nor does it really have a story, but it’s fun for train lovers (or fans of Lois Lenski).  Ages 2-5.

Train Song by Diane Siebert
As the name suggests, this book is written in song/or poem form. It lists the recommended age as 4-8, but I think age 2 or 3 to 7 is more accurate.

Steam, Smoke, and Steel: Back in Time with Trains by Patrick O’Brien
This book is for age 3 or 4 to 8. For the younger kids, you can skip the lengthier text pages and just read the caption.

Trains (Mighty Machines) by Jean Coppendale
A fun, non fiction book of trains and train facts for train lovers from 3-7.

The Big Book of Trains by DK
My son has always gravitated toward non-fiction books in the Youth section over fiction books for the topics he’s crazy about. (That means dinosaurs, construction trucks, and trains.) Starting from even 4 and 5 he’d sit and pour over the pictures in these books and we’d read (or summarize) the information on the pages for him. Don’t limit your library adventures to just the board book and picture book section.

One last tip! Don’t forget to check out your kids’ favorite series to see if there are train themed books. From Curious George to Daniel Tiger or even early readers like Henry and Mudge you might find some more options.

What other children’s books about trains am I missing?

graphic with a pile of kids' books about trains

Easter Basket Ideas for Tween Girls

An Easter basket full of gift ideas for tween girls

Easter is right around the corner! Today’s post is full of Easter basket ideas for tween girls. Tweens are kids between ages 9 and 12.

My oldest daughter is 10. Honestly I’m loving these years and she is so fun to buy for. She has new interests and likes more grown up things but also still really enjoys the more “kiddie” type of things as well.

We actually keep Easter gifts quite simple in our house, and don’t even use the basket. Each of the kids will just get a couple of inexpensive items (often candy and something else) and they are happy and look forward to it each year.

On Easter, we start our day with a big service and breakfast at church and afterward go home for a lunch and the kids’ treats. The baskets aren’t the main focus of our day, which helps with the ability to keep them simple.

All that to say, don’t feel that you have to go overboard on Easter baskets – do as much or as little as you’d like. Set a budget and stick to it.

Now, let’s get on to this fun list of tween girl Easter basket ideas. My daughter even helped compile this list for you.

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An easter basket loaded with goodies for a tween girl

Easter Basket Ideas for Tween Girls

For even more Easter basket ideas, be sure to check out this post!

What are your favorite Easter basket ideas for tween girls?

A close up picture of an Easter basket for tween girls

What I Read in 2020

Stack of some of the books I read in 2020I love books. A lot. They are one of the ways I both relax and learn. 2020 wasn’t my highest reading year ever, but I’m happy with it and still read lots of good books!

I broke the books into 4 broad categories:

Fiction, biography/memoir, non-fiction, and chapter books read with the kids. Be thankful that I left off the hundreds (over a thousand) picture books we read over the last year. 😉

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Books with an asterisk were my very favorites!

2 stacks of books I read last year.

At the Back of the North Wind
Anne of Green Gables*
Anne of Avonlea*
Anne of the Island
Anne of Windy Poplars
The Winged Watchman
Bridge to Terabithia
A Girl of the Limberlost*
Stepping Heavenward*

I hadn’t read any of those books in probably close to 20 years. My oldest daughter and I read the Anne books separately and want to finish the series this year. It was so fun fun re-read those. (Next I need to have a movie watching party with her.) Of course Ivanhoe and At the Back of the North Wind are great classics too.

If you haven’t read A Girl of the Limberlost do so, but read Freckles first. They are such enjoyable books. A side note, there is an old move of A Girl of the Limberlost and I watched it in my early teens. It was horrible and I despised it. One day my mom said the next thing she was going to read aloud to me was that book. I pitched a fit but ended up loving it!

Moral of the story is: Never judge a book by its movie.

Non Fiction:
Mere Christianity*
Girls’ Club
The Deepest Well*
Forgotten God
Approaching God: How to Pray
Grace for the Good Girl
Stop Calling Me Beautiful*
Why Motherhood Matters
She’s Still There
Who Made God?
The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness
The Years That Matter Most
Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes*
Your New Money Mindset
Tears We Cannot Stop
Glow Kids*

You need to read The Deepest Well. It will help you understand others. If you interact with kids, are a teacher, volunteer in kids ministry – please read it. It has also helped me be more understanding towards adults I struggled with.

Glow Kids is a great, eye-opening, sad look at kids and screens. Parents and people that work with children/teens need to read it, just to be aware!

This is my second time through Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes and I still find myself referencing it. Another must read. Of course Mere Christianity is always up there too.

Stop Calling Me Beautiful. So often we, especially women, are given a watered down Christianity. This is the call to go deeper with Jesus and dig into the Word which I am all about.

The Choice*
Union: A Democrat, A Reuplican, and a Search for Common Ground
Finding Chika
George Mueller
Three Cups of Tea
Hidden Figures
Atlas Girl
Jumping Through Fires

It feels like well over a year ago that I read 1776, but I enjoy reading anything by David McCoullough. Learning history is enlightening and needed. (Read John Adams after this one.)

loved The Choice. Edith was a survivor of Auschwitz. She tells her hard story of finding freedom well after the war had ended and her journey as a therapist and a few individuals she helped worked through their own trauma.

Even thought I only asterisked 2 of these books, I actually quite enjoyed all of them! It’s fascinating to learn the stories of other people, perspectives and times. They are worth reading.

Read to the Kids:
The Best Christmas Pageant Ever
Cat Stories
On the Banks of Plum Creek
By the Shores of Silver Lake
Happy Little Family
On the Edge of the Dark Sea of Darkness
North! Or Be Eaten
The Monster in the Hollows
Wednesdays in the Tower
Thursdays with the Crown
Charlotte’s Web
Pippi Longstocking
The Tale of Despereaux
Winter Cottage
Rabbit Hill
The Five Little Peppers and How They Grew

So many fun books I got to enjoy with my 3 kids this year. The first 3 books in The Wingfeather Saga were such a looked forward to part of our evenings as we listed to Andrew Peterson read them aloud each night on Facebook.

My 7 year old boy’s favorites from the list are: the 2 Little House books, the 3 Wingfeather saga books, Wednesdays in the Tower, Thursdays with the Crown, and Winter Cottage. (The Little House series is also one to discuss with your kids the treatment of Indigenous people and how they are talked about in the series.) 

The 9 year old says Wingfeather Saga topped her list.

My 4 year old proclaimed Rabbit Hill her favorite.

Hopefully this list gives you some reading inspiration. If you need more ideas, you can check out these posts from previous years:

A pile of books stacked on the floor that I read in 2020

90 Best Food Gifts

A collage of ideas of the best food gifts

Looking for ideas of what to make for presents this year? Here are 90 of the best food gift ideas! So many tasty and creative looking options. Some of these food gifts take a little more time, but most can be made easily!

Your recipients will love these goodies. They’d be perfect to give to family members, friends, neighbors, or even co-workers. My 9 year old daughter put together mini goodie plates for her friends.

One of the nice things about food gifts is that you don’t have to worry about adding clutter to someone’s home. Instead the entire family will enjoy eating these treats!

90 of the Best Food Gifts You Can Make

Spices, Oils, and Seasonings

Collage of the best food gifts that are spices and seasonings

Homemade Chinese Chili Oil from Everyday Maven

Preserved Chilis in Oil from It’s Not Complicated

Instant Pot Hot Sauce from Simply Happy Foodie

Homemade Pizza Seasoning from Amy D Gorin

Old Bay Seasoning from Little Sunny Kitchen

DIY Finishing Salts from Beyond Mere Sustenance

Homemade Apple Cider Vinegar from Sustain My Cooking Habit

Sweet and Spicy Pepper Relish from Two Healthy Kitchens

Apple Ginger Chutney from Profusion Curry

Homemade Vanilla Extract from Easy Budget Recipes

Instant Pot Vanilla Extract from Simply Happy Foodie

Soup Mixes

4 soup mixes to use as a food gift

Easy Soup in a Jar from Country Chic Cottage

French Market Soup Mix from Super Mom Hacks

Friendship Bean Soup Mix from Freebie Finding Mom

Three Bean Chili Mix from Marathons and Motivation

Miscellaneous Kitchen Items

Pancake mix, candied ginger, and pasta sauce for food gifts

Homemade Tomato Basil Pasta Sauce from Wholesome Family Living

Candied Ginger from Went Here 8 This

Apple Cinnamon Pancake Mix from Freebie Finding Mom

Butters, Jams, and Syrups

7 different butters, syrups, and jams

Homemade Lemon Butter from She Saved

Homemade Apple Butter from Wholesome Family Living

Instant Pot Pumpkin Butter from Recipes From a Pantry

Chocolate Raspberry Jam (needs refrigerated) from Blend with Spices

Canned Raspberry Blueberry Jam from Fluxing Well

Spiced Plum Syrup from Beyond Mere Sustenance

Canned Blueberry Syrup from Fluxing Well

Beverages – Hot Cocoa and Mulling Spices

Hot cocoa bombs and wassail for food gifts

William Sonoma Mulling Spices from Savoring the Good

Homemade Hot Cocoa Mix from Me and My Inklings

Hot Cocoa in a Jar from Saving Mealtime

Hot Chocolate Bombs from Tastes of Homemade

White Chocolate Mocha Hot Chocolate Balls from Saving Dollars and Sense

Hot Cocoa Bombs from The Kitchen Chalkboard

Hot Chocolate on a Stick from Vegan Huggs

Brittle and Bark

Collage of barks and brittles for homemade food gifts

Chocolate Chip Brownie Brittle from From this Kitchen Table

Pomegranate + Pistachio Dark Chocolate Bark from Maple + Mango

Peppermint Oreo Bark from The Gingerbread House

Easy Peppermint Bark Recipe from Made in a Pinch

Easy Holiday Chocolate Bark from Frugal Elegance

Dark Chocolate Pretzel Bark from From this Kitchen Table

Easy White Chocolate Peppermint Bark from On My Kids Plate


4 fudge recipes for a food gift

Best Fudge Recipe Ever from From this Kitchen Table

Rocky Road Fudge from Easy Budget Recipes

Dark Chocolate Fudge from From this Kitchen Table

Chocolate Peanut Butter Fudge from From this Kitchen Table

Spiced and Candied Nuts

Candied and Spiced nuts for a food gift

Spicy Rosemary Maple Roasted Nuts from Flavor the Moments

Simple Healthy Spiced Nuts from Debra Klein

Healthy Caramalised Nuts from Rhian’s Recipes

Healthy Candied Walnuts from Natalie’s Health

Pumpkin Spice Candies Pecans from Two Healthy Kitchens

Cinnamon Roasted Almonds from Natalie’s Health

Maple Candied Walnuts from Earth Food and Fire

Stovetop Candied Pecans from a Sweet Alternative (these use maple syrup!!!)

Spicy Candied Walnuts from Butter Your Biscuit

Bourbon Candies Pecans from Gastronom Blog

Candied Almonds from Mom Foodie

Truffles and Peppermint Patties

Truffles and peppermint patties for food gift ideas

Dark Chocolate Mint Truffles from Delightful Adventures

Vegan Peppermint Patties from Delightful Adventures

Homemade Peppermint Patties from Kids Activities

Raw Vegan Chocolate Hazelnut Truffles from Seven Roses

White Chocolate Lemon Truffles from Love Bakes Good Cakes

Chocolate Truffles from What a Girl Eats

Brownie Truffles from This Ole Mom

Oreo Truffles from CincyShopper

Other Sweets

Christmas treats for food gift ideas

Sea Salt Caramel Pecan Turtles from What a Girl Eats

Christmas Chocolate Pretzel Bites from A Taste of Madness

Chocolate Dipped Pretzel Rods from Profusion Curry

3 Ingredient Pretzel Hugs from Crayons and Cravings

Chocolate Turtles from Amanda’s Cookin’

Gingerbread Caramel Corn from The Forked Spoon

Buckeye Candy from Food Folks and Fun

Old Fashioned Peanut Butter Balls from The Short Order Cook

Dark Chocolate Peanut Butter Balls from A Baking Journey

Chili Chocolate Clusters from It’s Not Complicated

Crockpot Christmas Candy from Recipes From a Pantry

Puppy chow and chex mix

Puppy Chow and Chex Mix

Christmas Muddy Buddies: Reindeer Chow from She Saved

Smore Puppy Chow Recipe from Curry Trail

Sweet Salty and Spicy Chex Mix from Curry Trail

Cookie Mixes

Jars of cookie mix

Mason Jar Chocolate Chip Cookies from Saving Dollars and Sense

Cranberry Oatmeal Chocolate Chip Cookies in a Jar from Vegan Huggs

White Chocolate Cranberry Cookie Mix from Marathons and Motivation

Collage of baked goods for gifts

Baked Goods

Chocolate Pizzelles from Savoring the Good

Chewy Molasses Cookies from From this Kitchen Table

Norwegian Christmas Cookies from It’s a Keeper

Christmas Cream Cheese Chocolate Cookie Bars from The Short Order Cook

Sugar Cookies from From this Kitchen Table

Peppermint Hot Chocolate Cookies from Savvy Honey

Snowball Cookies (aka Russian Tea Cakes) from From this Kitchen Table

Italian Sesame Cookies from Blend with Spices

Orange and Cranberry Cookies from Simply Living Recipes

Cranberry Nut Bread from Kippi at Home

Chocolate Brioche Bread Wreath from A Baking Journey

That right there is 90 great suggestions for the best food gifts! The ideas keep going from here – the options really are endless. Pick something using ingredients you have (or that you already know you like) and put together affordable presents!

You can gift these in jars, tins, plates wrapped in plastic tied with a boy, gift boxes. Get creative and use what you have! Look at Hobby Lobby and Walmart after the holidays and see what you can find on clearance for next year. Keep your eyes open at garage sales for mason jars.

Food gifts can be super affordable and fun, even with the packaging!

What are your favorite food gifts – to give and to receive?